They may be, it is as much as them.
We believe attraction is key to bisexuality, maybe maybe not the relationships, or the intercourse, or the life style. We are additionally well conscious that some individuals think it is better to show their attraction after a pints that are few but we do not genuinely believe that liquor modifications sexuality, just lowers inhibitions.
Yes, some individuals aren’t thinking about sex, or relationships, with over one sex – simply flirting and kissing. However the number of attraction is not appropriate for bisexuality – simply its presence.
The same applies to right and gay: if perhaps you were drawn to just the opposite gender, but just desired to kiss, cuddle and flirt using them, then don’t you concur you would continue to have any right to phone your self ‘straight’ if you desired to? We believe that the same task holds true for gay individuals, therefore it must hold real for bisexual people too, whatever the quantity of attraction they feel towards other genders.
Simply as you are able to be bisexual with no yet slept with an increase of than one sex, to help you be bisexual without planning to do this either. It is not concerning the intercourse. Finally it really is as much as individuals to label by themselves, therefore we believe that “barsexuals” who utilize the word “bisexual” about by themselves have actually every right to do this, and bisexuals whom have the b-word has to be protected from fuzzy sides is going and settle down. Sex is about those fuzzy sides!
Terms like barsexual and bicurious are utilized as slurs to denigrate individuals and create “good bis” vs “bad bis”. Do not participate in.
Bisexuals are plague dogs
The first warnings about HIV and AIDS targeted us as a ‘high danger group’, as soon as the genuine danger is maybe not about who you are, it really is in what you will do.